The first thing to say is that YOUR session, just like everyone else’s, will be unique!
All consultations start the same – I’ll ask you “What’s the problem?” – we’ll go from there, but where exactly that takes us is uncertain, and that’s perfectly OK.
What I’ll is to help you access your sub-conscious mind, which is very much awake, but hidden. You cannot usually access this part of your mind, in fact the harder you try the more it will resist. Here’s why:
Your subconscious loves you. Very much.
You may be lucky enough to have a great lover, friends, family and relationships with great people, but nobody, anywhere on Earth, loves and cares about you as much as your subconscious does.
He or she is always there, always, watching and observing, always learning and spotting patterns, always making connections, and then guiding and, ultimately, always controlling you.
For your own good.
That controlling is always done with the best of intentions, and with deep, genuine care for your well-being – but when it screws up, it screws up with that same unstoppable “to the death” determination, to protect you at all costs!
Card maxed out? Get another card! Account closed? Open another account!
It thinks it’s helping, even when you know consciously it’s hurting you.
It will not stop on its own. If it deems it necessary, it will ruin your life, because it believes it’s protecting you from something even worse—even worse than bankruptcy, a ruined marriage, chronic stress, ill health, or anything else. There is no limit to the damage it will cause, while it still thinks it’s protecting you.
That is why it’s so laughable when people suggest “Try to resist” or rely on willpower.
Many conventional therapies, including conventional hypnotherapy, can be ineffective, dragging on for months without ever addressing the core issues, and so relapse later. If you only suppress the symptoms then the same or a new problem will just keep popping up.
So what is it, what is ‘even worse’ than all the damage and hurt that your spending addiction can do, or is already doing? What is your sub-conscious trying to protect you from?
That’s what we’ll find out, together, in private.
Why this is different – I’ll help you delve deep down into your unconscious mind, so we can untangle the knots and wrong connections keeping you trapped, addicted to shopping and your compulsive spending. Important – Your private thoughts remain private; you’re awake and aware through the whole process, so no, you won’t tell me anything you don’t want to.
Spending addiction damages relationships for sure, such as having to hide how much was spent, or heated arguments – but I believe the real relationship problem, is your relationship with yourself.
It’s internal, so we go internal to find and remove the problem. Makes sense, right?
When that happens you may experience a sudden ‘breakthrough’, where you suddenly have a deep flash of insight and understanding, and at that very moment you already know your shopping addiction is cured, fixed; gone already!
For some people that’s just the first layer, and we’ll go even deeper, until there’s another breakthrough, and maybe even another.
Other times, and just as common, you’ll find yourself slipping into deep thought. This is your unconscious making new connections and breaking old, false connections, as it “processes” our conversation.
The real breakthrough might come a week or two later. There’s no right or wrong; fast or slow, they both work.
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